#7in7

Today, I began an exercise in creativity called 7 in 7.  7 songs in 7 days.  If you are interested in following my progress, I set up a Tumblr, that I will be posting the audio to.  Click the picture below.  Song 1 is in the bag.

Spotify Worked for Ryan Adams

Last week, I received an email from Spotify saying that Ryan Adams new record “Ashes and Fire” was now available to stream.  It sat in my inbox waiting for the right time.  You can’t just put on a Ryan Adams album any time of day.  It has to be the right time.  For me, coffee must be present, and a general feeling of melancholy doesn’t hurt either.  Monday morning most weeks fits these two requirements, so today was the day.

I have loved Ryan Adams since the days of Demolition.  His songwriting captured me in a way that few songwriters have.  Simple, honest lyrics, with a bent towards self-pity.  I love it.

This album was a fixture in my musical diet in 2002.  Then, I went back and bought Gold, and have almost every one of his albums since then.  He is constantly writing.  And he never really repeats himself.  He is committed to this craft of making good music, and I love that about him.

So back to Spotify.  I made it through track 5, and went directly to iTunes and bought the whole album.  It’s good to support good music.

What’s your favorite album as of late?

Squeeze.

How many of you Worship Pastors/Leaders out there, are beginning to feel the squeeze?  How many have this increasing level of anxiety that shows up, all so subtly, and takes hold of your blood pressure, sanity, peace, heart-rate, and more…till December 26th?

This is my calendar for this week.  Notice Tuesday and Wednesday.  More and More, the weeks are starting to look like this for me.  Yesterday was our yearly, Christmas Events planning meeting.  And, as helpful our staff has been about not loading me up with the bulk of the burden (which has been the case in years past) I am still feeling a bit of pressure.  And, it’s only October.

As a Church with a Preschool in it, every year they have a big Christmas Event in our Worship Space.  Which means, = clearing the stage//running tech support, etc…

Then, our Children’s Ministry has a big production.  = Clearing the stage//tech support, etc…

And, a Community Christmas Tree Lighting, Christmas Cafe (which we are attempting to pull off Behold The Lamb of God, and which we have already been working for 2 months on) and Christmas Eve Candlelight Service.  On top of our Advent Conspiracy series benefitting Hope Unlimited.

How am I going to get this all done, and not come out of Christmas, completely spent?  Anyone else feeling the squeeze?  I think I am better prepared heading into the madness, than in years past, but I can feel the tension.  It’s palpable.

 

 

Free.

Really been trying to stretch my mind around the phenomenon of folks giving their music away.  Noisetrade-Free mp3 downloads.  I mean, your music…it’s so personal, so intricate, so raw…will me giving away my music, cheapen it to some who might have otherwise not bought it?  Will this be viewed as a stupid decision by others, only driven by our need for publicity?  Or…will be a genius move?

I am leaning towards the latter, for I understand the value of the true fan.

I am a true fan.

That is, I’m a fan of Graham Colton and Green River Ordinance, who have chosen to give their music away.  I downloaded their tunes, and primarily that is all I have been listening to as of late.  So much so, that I am now the proud owner of almost all their stuff (and I bought the rest of it).  I am a true fan of theirs.  I will go to their shows and I will RT them.  That’s worth much more than $6 (the average proceeds from a $9.99 album on iTunes) to them, I am sure.  For me, I’d pay $6 for a rabid fan.  The least I can do is give the music away and hope that it strikes a chord for someone who can identify with our songs.  Perhaps that person will become a friend/fan/promoter/loyal listener.  That is why we make the music, right?  It’s about people right?  So we can connect with people.  Here, have our album, and I hope you can connect with this.  It’s why we do what we do.

It’s our language, our M.O., our hearts cry.  Connection.  Love.  Music.  Enjoy, and feel free to share this with anyone, and everyone.  After all, it’s free!

Whole 9

So, about a month ago Vanessa and I found out that some friends of our were doing some crazy cleanse to kick off Marathon training season.  This cleanse was totally healthy, with no supplements or medication of any kind.  More of a body SHOCK, to get us off of our Carb/Sugar addiction.  I was sold immediately, as more and more frequently I have been feeling just kind of blah, after a carb heavy meal.  Yet we return time and again.  There is a reason it’s called “Comfort Food”.  Anyways, Vanessa felt the same, and both of us have seen this addiction in our children too.

So, we had a month and a half to prepare mentally, and yesterday was launch day.

The basic tenants are:

No processed food.

No alcohol. Period.

No legumes. (beans, things that grow in the ground)

No dairy.

No white potatoes.

No grains of any kind.

No added sugar.

Here is the website for this plan.  It’s for-real hardcore.  I am stoked about this “change your life” type of eating.  It’s time to get food to work for me, not against me.

Anyways, yesterday looked like this:

Breakfast was Sundried Tomatoes and Onion Egg Fritata, and strawberries.

Lunch was chicken salad (canned chicken, avocado, cherry tomatoes, bell pepper strips, garlic salt, and pepper) wrapped in lettuce leaves. Delicious!

Then, dinner was browned Pork Chops, steamed broccoli, mashed cauliflower (that we told the kids were potatoes).  So funny, the whole time Bailey was like “this tastes like squash”.  No response from Vanessa and I.

The tough thing, is that organic things are preferred.  Well, you and I both know that organic is code for crazy expensive.  In fact Vanessa bought organic Bell Peppers, 4 of them = $9.  Thus the end of our buying organic experiment!  But, they were some darn good looking peppers!

 

Deep In The Jungle

Took this hike into the jungle on an island on the northern tip of Sumatra.  Guns N Roses played in my head (Welcome to the Jungle) as we crossed the river rock headed for the waterfall.  Then, we came upon it, sheer splendor.  After a refreshing dip in the pond at the base of the waterfall, what else would we do other than climb the thing?  So, that we did:

Christian Orphan Policy

This is a guest post of a friend of mine named Ken Gross.  Ken has a heart for worship, and for responding to God’s call on his life.  In this post, Ken shares and interesting bit of logic tied to taking care of Orphans (i.e….James 1:27).

Thank you for sharing Ken!

Christian Orphan Policy

I was reading a book recently and I ran across a term called replacement birth rate.  This is the rate of live births a nation has to have to replace its population.  The number for the modern world is about 2.1, meaning that we need to have an average of 2.1 babies born per child bearing woman to keep a population where it currently is.  The US is about on target, but Europe runs at close to 1.5, meaning their population is doomed to decline unless they change it or have significant immigration from somewhere.

Obviously there are many implications to these kinds of demographics, and I started wondering how this applies to the Christian community.  What is our replacement rate, and even if we replace, are we “training up a child in the way he should go” (Pr 22:6), meaning will he or she end up as a Christ follower?  Even if we have the average replacement rate and all our children accept Christ, aren’t we just holding our own?  I know that this ignores any fruitful evangelism we might succeed in here in the US, but are we successful at that?  Based on the decline in church attendance here in the US, we are not succeeding at either moving our children toward Christ or helping our neighbors, “see the light”.

Now, let’s take a little leap here.  Consider this verse from James:

James 1:27 – Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.  NASU

It appears that God the Father is particularly sensitive about widows and orphans, which means we ought to be too!  I will leave the consideration of widows for another time, and focus on orphans; children without parents.

In looking at the need to improve our “Christian replacement rate”, there is one way the great commission (Mt 28:18-20), and the desire to obey God in taking care of orphans, can be tied together.  If Christian families adopted more orphans, there would be fewer left in the world, this would please God.  If we were somewhat successful at pointing these adopted children toward Christ, we would increase the size of the Christian community in the US.  This is a win-win situation in the context of scriptural obedience.

The only loser would be our pocketbooks, and this is where it gets interesting.  If Christian families that cannot or are not willing to adopt orphans would financially contribute, it would go a long way to helping the families that would be able to adopt.  If we adopted a simple personal “Christian Orphan Policy” at the family or individual level we could see some interesting results.

Each adopting family would have a policy of adoption and financially contributing whatever their resources would allow.  Each non-adopting unit (Family or individual) could have a policy of contributing a small sum of money over and above their monthly tithe, they would have to pray about this and eventually figure out what small sum was appropriate.  In this article I am going to use $10 per month.

Another consideration I would make is to restrict such giving to local situations, for example at individual churches or having a loose partnership of like minded churches within a community.  This would avoid the inevitable financial and operational drag that comes with excessive oversight and distant decision makers.  Mostly it would make the giving up close and personal.

Let’s take a medium size church of say 500 hundred giving units, it might be 400 families and 100 teens and singles, but it could be any combination.  500 giving units at $10 per month is $60,000 per year.  When we add in gifts and grants that are frequently available from other sources, we end up with a significant sum of money.  That would go a long way to helping the adopting families within that church.  This small gift system could facilitate adopting as many as 5 children a year from overseas or more than 10 a year locally.

A small sacrifice for each of us, but very effective in its outcome.  Just something to think about.

 

 

The Day after Father’s Day

This year’s Father’s Day was understandably different for me.  My Dad passed away just 3 weeks ago.  His life (and his passing) is still very fresh in my mind.

I had several people text me, and post on my FB wall that they were praying for me, and that they understood that this would be a tough Father’s Day.  I really appreciated the thoughts and prayers.  I really needed just that.  I really felt like I was going to do ok, but then during a church service yesterday, (and I was on stage at this exact moment) my Pastor said “perhaps this is your first Father’s Day without your Father” as he was greeting the congregation, and I almost lost it.  That was me.  Trying to hold it together.

Then for the next few songs, there were moments of struggle.  Had to drop off the mic cause I was getting choked up.  I miss my Dad.

 

 

The last 3 weeks have been very hard.  My wife has been in Mozambique, Africa for a planned mission trip.  She left the day after we buried my Dad.  I am glad she went because of the work that they did, and how much she enjoyed it.  I wouldn’t have changed it for the world.  

It was just a little tougher without her here.  She is such a wonderful support for me when I need it, and not having that support was hard.  In addition, it’s taken all that I have to help take care of my Mom, continue to work, find childcare for the kids, sell and ship all my Dad’s medical equipment, and lead a Monday night group.

I am glad she’s back.

So…I am picking up the blog about my Dad, and who he was, and the life he led.   Stay tuned…

My Dad

Many of you have head that news that my Father, Ben Cordes, passed away early Sunday morning.  After a 3 year battle with ALS, he went home to be with Jesus.  We are so thankful for the many friends and family that showed up this week to show support and love to the family.  We were blown away with the support from The Fellowship at Cinco Ranch.  From Food, to just hanging out and letting us talk about Dad, you guys were amazing.  Thank you. 

The thing I most took away from this week, was that my Dad was special to so many people.  He lived his life to the fullest, and at the end of it, made a decision to follow Christ.  For that, I am SO thankful.  I would NOT be celebrating his life like I am today if he hadn’t.  My grieving: OUR grieving would look so much different…be so much harder.  We WILL see him again!

For now, this picture sums up perfectly, who my Dad was, and how he choose to live his life.  I am going to be doing a series telling different stories of my Father’s life.  I hope you will subscribe to this blog to read the stories, and get to know this man like we knew him.

Also, as soon as I left the hospital, I began to think, “how can I use my gifts to honor my Father?”.  Immediately, I began making plans to put together a video with pictures of his life, and music that I heard over and over again as a kid; playing from his 8 track player in his truck.

My Dad loved music, and passed that love onto me.  So grateful for that.  He understood how music could move you, bring back a memory, describe to joy of a season.  He felt it.

Never have I been to a memorial in a church that had such a personal feel.  We wanted to make it, SO Ben Cordes.  For the Pre-Service House Music, here was the playlist.

1.  Up Around The Bend, CCR.

2.  The Heart of The Matter, Don Henley

3.  Hold My Hand, Hootie and the Blowfish

4.  Late For The Sky, Jackson Browne

5.  With A Little Help From My Friends, Joe Cocker

6.  Running On Empty, Jackson Browne

7.  Take The Highway, Marshall Tucker Band

8.  A Whiter Shade of Pale, Procol Harum

Without further adieu.  The video tribute, to Ben Cordes.

 

 

Worship Recap 5-22

Sunday started out with a bang.  I knew when I woke up that we still had songs to put into ProPresenter (“My Father’s World” and “Beautiful Savior”).  2 new songs for 1 service.  Generally, I wouldn’t do more than 1.  I find that there is definitely a threshold that each church has to how many new songs you can introduce.  I know because in my first year here, I did 30.  That was a little much, but they were barely doing Hillsong, and hadn’t even heard of United’s “United We Stand”.  

So…for yesterday, 2 new one’s.  But, most people probably have heard “My Father’s World” before, just not the way I have it arranged.  At least, that was my justification.

That, and One Sonic Society’s “Beautiful Savior” was just too good to pass up.

So, I woke up and went straight to the Keurig.  After 1 cup, and a quick shower, I hustled up to church.  1st thing every Sunday is making an air pot of coffee for our team.  I like to think of myself as a servant to our volunteers.  Love on them.  Serve them, and keep doing it over and over again.  They are giving their time.  The least I can do is give them coffee.  The least.

Then, I sat down and opened up the Word.  The Psalms are a wonderful place for early Sunday morning.  Yesterday, Psalm 50, 53, 60 and 75.  Part of my read through the Bible yearly plan.  And yes…I’m a few weeks behind.  Don’t judge me.

After reading, hopped on the iMac and started putting in the lyrics.  At 7am, the volunteers start rolling in.  Time to get busy.

After a great rehearsal, we took a short break before coming back and doing a technical rehearsal.  The tech rehearsal is critical.  Things have gone so much smoother since implementing this practice.

Here’s what happens.  The Tech Team get’s in place and sets up the room with our Preservice conditions.  House lights up, stage lights down, iTunes rolling our preservice playlist…and then we walk through the service with everyone.  The band and singers, and the Pastors, included.  We will do the service as if it was the real deal and it usually takes around 30 mins.  We cut out the preaching and the extended prayer time.

In times past, I have heard us call the the 1st service our “warm up” service.  Our “trial run”, and usually, we treated it like such.  Transitions were sloppy, dead and awkward stage time, etc… There was a much higher potential for awkwardness in the 1st service.   (I’m sorry if you are one of the victims of that-hopefully we are doing much better now).

Anyways…after Tech Rehearsal, we had about 20 minutes before the beginning of service.  I love not being rushed on Sunday morning.

We started off with “The Highest and Greatest” by Tim Hughes, and “Bless The Lord” by Jeff Deyo.  Love both of these songs.  Great declaration in the chorus of “Bless The Lord”.  ”I will worship You, I will praise Your Name forever…”, good stuff.

Then after a quick time of meet and greet, we did “My Father’s World”.  Hope to record this someday.  It’s a catchy revamp of the old hymn.

We then did a welcome that on video and moved to a time of honoring the graduating seniors.  It was a wonderful time.  We coupled that with our prayer time that we call Stand In The Gap.

After that, we did 2 more songs; “Beautiful Savior”, One Sonic Society and “Your Great Name” (and I am not sure who wrote this song, the first version I heard was from The People’s Church in Franklin, TN. But I am LOVING this song right now.  So powerful an expression.  Fresh worship for our Church, great melody, this song has it all.

Then, Pastor David came up to break a wonderful message on what we pass on to our Children.  It was convicting for me, no doubt.

A wonderful, stress-free, worshipful Sunday.  Lifechange happened.  People me the Lord, and for many, for the first time ever.  Praise God.  What better way is there to start the week?

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